Swaddling for happiness

He was exhausted from managing his employees and had a date that night expected him to be in-charge, so I had that in mind when building our scene.

Not just for babies anymore, mummification is the process of immobilizing and essentially cocooning someone, often with plastic wrap, latex sheet or even medical tape. But my instincts and parenting had me realize I could use a good old bed sheet and did so like a pro twisting and tucking the end up with no google search needed. 

Bound with cuffs, rolled into the bedsheet, with eyes and ears covered—he was content enjoying this new sub space experience of nearly full sensory deprivation after having served my desires earlier. But I know this man, this adventurer, this dare devil. He doesn’t get a lot of pleasure with easy-to-come-by satisfaction so I added just a tinge of sizzle.

Sweeping ice cubes seductively up the inside of his thighs and placing them on his pelvis and scrotum, I watched them transform from solid to liquid. After I contrasted the cold with the warmth of my breath and a warm pack placed gently over his exposed parts, I also witnessed a transformation of this man’s energy shift from stuck to liquid light. The power of attention, the power of sensation, and the power of love. Love and attention is something I can give freely when I feel a healthy exchange. He applies himself just as whole heartedly to serving as I do to giving. He’s not available for collaring and our time together is limited but oh the fun that can be explored when a lot of trust and even a little love is applied.